Ultimately, sane people have to raise their voices to be heard above the clash of extremists. I grew up with the notion that it was impolite to discuss politics because it tended to lead to acrimony; I have since decided that that attitude cedes the field to the people who still discuss politics, so I have taken up being vocal about issues.
There are subtle ways one can go about these things. My wife’s uncle, for instance, is fairly conservative, but when I sent one of his daughters How to Lie with Statistics as a Yule present before going to college, he read it and really liked it, so I’ve been sending him reality-based fact-checking and policy books for Yule ever since. When he mentioned on the phone that he liked Glenn Beck, I said “Better keep factcheck.org and politifact.com handy, ’cos that guy does not do his research”, and about a month later he complained to my wife that he didn’t like Beck much any more. When his wife was worried about terrorists taking over America, I explained why that was strategically infeasible and sent her a copy of Bruce Schneier’s Beyond Fear.
I haven’t tried playing on the family’s Christian views by sending Cornel West books to any of them yet... might be overdoing it...
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Ultimately, sane people have to raise their voices to be heard above the clash of extremists. I grew up with the notion that it was impolite to discuss politics because it tended to lead to acrimony; I have since decided that that attitude cedes the field to the people who still discuss politics, so I have taken up being vocal about issues.
There are subtle ways one can go about these things. My wife’s uncle, for instance, is fairly conservative, but when I sent one of his daughters How to Lie with Statistics as a Yule present before going to college, he read it and really liked it, so I’ve been sending him reality-based fact-checking and policy books for Yule ever since. When he mentioned on the phone that he liked Glenn Beck, I said “Better keep factcheck.org and politifact.com handy, ’cos that guy does not do his research”, and about a month later he complained to my wife that he didn’t like Beck much any more. When his wife was worried about terrorists taking over America, I explained why that was strategically infeasible and sent her a copy of Bruce Schneier’s Beyond Fear.
I haven’t tried playing on the family’s Christian views by sending Cornel West books to any of them yet... might be overdoing it...